I honestly am dreading breast feeding and for my own personal reasons I'm not going to breast feed.I mean I will try it but if I don't like the feeling I'm going to use a breast pump that way my baby can still get the benefits of breast milk and my husband can share in the feding experience.Maybe you should run that idea past your hubby.Trust me..its a good thing you two are discussing it now because besides the whole"are you having a natural childbirth" question"are you going to breast feed" is a very popular question that everyone loves to ask and judge a pregnant woman.Good luck!