Re: 13 and i had a miscarriage and my family is happy!?
Bullying is more than name calling and threats. Bullying is judging and/or being judgemental towards one another. For Gods sake, the girl didn't ask you what you think about her being 13 years old and pregnant, she asked what in Gods name would make somebody HAPPY about a child DYING. How would you feel if your baby DIED in your belly? How would you feel knowing you would be able to see him/her once and never again? People telling you that your babys HEART STOPPED BEATING FOR THE BEST. You would never be able to look into your childs eyes and it was FOR THE BEST or they were GRATEFUL for this? Maybe 13 is way too young. But accidents happen everyday. Just because she is 13 doesn't mean she would love her child any less than you or anyody else would. That poor girl was looking for support and all you can do is sit there and judge her, telling her she's just a baby herself, she's way too damn young, etc.
HER BABY DIED FOR CHISTS' SAKE. HAVE A HEART. I'm so glad my pregnancy forum doesn't allow this kind of drama, there people are actually kind and loving towards eachother, no matter what age, ethnicity, or sex. A child isn't somebody we should judge eachother about.
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