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Originally Posted by mBLACK
Bullying is more than name calling and threats. Bullying is judging and/or being judgemental towards one another. For Gods sake, the girl didn't ask you what you think about her being 13 years old and pregnant, she asked what in Gods name would make somebody HAPPY about a child DYING. How would you feel if your baby DIED in your belly? How would you feel knowing you would be able to see him/her once and never again? People telling you that your babys HEART STOPPED BEATING FOR THE BEST. You would never be able to look into your childs eyes and it was FOR THE BEST or they were GRATEFUL for this? Maybe 13 is way too young. But accidents happen everyday. Just because she is 13 doesn't mean she would love her child any less than you or anyody else would. That poor girl was looking for support and all you can do is sit there and judge her, telling her she's just a baby herself, she's way too damn young, etc.
HER BABY DIED FOR CHISTS' SAKE. HAVE A HEART. I'm so glad my pregnancy forum doesn't allow this kind of drama, there people are actually kind and loving towards eachother, no matter what age, ethnicity, or sex. A child isn't somebody we should judge eachother about.
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Before you start ASSUMING things you should know that I have had TWO BABIES DIE IN MY BELLY! I had people be sympathetic, yes but they also said it was probably for the best. I was TWENTY AND TWENTY-EIGHT!
Why should people hold back their opinions because they aren't politically correct or don't agree with others? 13 yrs old and pregnant is a huge mistake in this society. I never made fun of her, never called her names or taunted her. This was a blessing in disguise and while it hurts her now, she will realize later in life that it was meant to be.
p.s. if you don't like this board so much then go back to "your" board.