It's not a stupid question at all. When it comes down to it a baby will thrive on breast milk or formula. Is breast best? Yes, it is healthier. That's not the end of the story though. A lot of women think of their breasts as very sexual things and the thought of them being filled with milk on a baby sucking on them can seem really weird! Breast feeding, while natural, doesn't come naturally. There are pros and cons and so I think it's important to respect women for their individual choices.
As a mother who has breast fed two babies I'd like to make a plea to those who may be offended by women breast feeding in public. When I was out and about with baby and he needed to eat my number one priority was making sure my little one was well cared for and got the milk he needed. My second priority was making sure to stay covered up, I don't want strangers seeing my boob! Unfortunantly, because it can be hard juggling a screaming baby, leaking giant boobs and grocery bags on there, sometimes the best way was to just get that baby on there FAST. Basically, realize that those moms at parks, malls and parked cars are just trying to feed their baby. It's hard to get comfortable on those hard benches, or even worse sitting somewhere without a back, and sometimes the milk won't flow if I'm stressing out. Anyways, I try my best to be discreet but sometimes it's hard. I have nothing to say for those who just let their boobs hang out, for the whole world to see, nipple and all. But that's not me, but I've still had plenty of dirty looks. I'm just feeding my baby like my body want to.
Best of luck with whatever your decision is. Breast feeding can be wonderful and comforting and extra bonding, but if it's not for you, that's ok! Congrats on baby
