I just feel so bad for that poor little baby. Everyone has already made up their mind to not love it or welcome it into the world. The mother talks openly about giving it away, the potential father wont be there to see it be born, you have resentment feelings towards it and refered to it as a "thing" in your last post.

I hope that the baby lucks up and will have people to love it in the long run. As well as care for it. However, I think it sounds like the baby will more then likely be prone to abuse all the adults in its life sounds neurotic .

If you think you will ever have peace, then stay with this guy. But if you cant have peace in your own home then you need to ask yourself how worth it is it really?

I was in a relationship for 8 years with a guy who in the begining slept with his first wife a few times. Even though my relationship eventually became mongomous, it was rough and neither of us could fully let go of all the pain we had caused each other. I was scared of being on my own, and he wouldnt go unless I totally made it clear that it wasnt working. We eventually got the guts to split up and I have never been more happy. It took about a year to recover, but I eventually did and now am in love with a wonderful man.

Good Luck to you and your baby and your possible step son baby (especially the step son baby)