...another baby.? He asks me everyday if we can get pregnant and when I say no and give him my reasons he tells me they are no good. He also said if I don't let him get me pregnant he will secretly come in me.... is that bad? What do I say?
then he said I need to come up with an exact month and let him know because he needs to know. thanks!

your husband could be testing you... to see if you will give in and say okay to another baby... however, if he is serious I would invest in some birth control, I know guys who have done what your husband is speculating... and it would not be a secret cause you would feel him coming inside you... good luck