Hello again, I hope this isn't what we think it is...my wife called me this morning at work and told me that her breasts stop feeling sore? Please tell me there is no reason to panic. She made an appt at Kaiser this afternoon to see if there is anything wrong. I have been reading everything I can find and it looks like it can be a sign of miscarriage but it also looks like it could be totally normal? She has no cramping or bleeding so we're hoping everything is fine.

it's perfectly normal for your breasts to not be tender.
mine never felt sore when i first got pregnant. only later on in the pregnancy did they get sore.

if she isn't bleeding and nothing else is wrong, there is no reason to worry. same goes with other pregnancy symptoms. if she loses all her symptoms, it doesn't mean she's miscarrying. it means pregnancy is treating her well!

i never had ANY symptoms of pregnancy and things were fine. everyone is different. unless there are other reasons to be alarmed like cramping, spotting, bleeding, etc...symptoms are not a sign of anything at all.

Thanks for your response I really appreciate it! I guess what's worrying her the most is that they have been so tender for at least 2 weeks now and all of a sudden gone. It sounds like that can be a normal thing..we'll find out later today.

I agree, I wouldn't stress too much about it. Reassure her and if she needs to be reassured by her doc, then make an appointment. Remember, anyone can post on the Internet. People have different experiences and different symptons, and they can occur at different times. One woman can have symptoms and the other not. Just because someone says that losing breast tenderness was a sign of miscarriage for them shouldn't mean anything to your wife other than just another reason to worry. Hopefully, everything is just fine.

I agree this seems normal. Im only 10 weeks and mine are sore for a week or so and then they'll be fine for awhile and not hurt at all. Pregnancy is a crazy ride, there are good days and bad. Congrats by the way!!

I have had patients experience this 'symptom' and have it be normal, and I have seen it as a sign the pregnancy ended. Your research is right - the door on this one can swing either way. Hopefully they'll be able to do an ultrasound at her drs appt and hear good news

We just got back from Kaiser. Everything is perfectly fine! My wife is 7wks 1 day and we saw and heard a strong heartbeat. We really lucked out and got a very supportive, knowledgeable, and friendly MD this time around. I would guess she's in her mid-30's and explains everything in detail and really takes the time to listen and answer questions. No rushing us along or treating us like just another patient. We are so happy to hear/see that everything is fine. She explained that the tenderness that went away is perfectly normal and that it varies from person to person. I know I sound like a broken record but THANKS again for your input and info it really helps!

awww...i'm glad everything turned out ok.

and thats what a forum is for...input/advice/personal experiences to ease the mind.. i'm glad we could help.

and thanks for keeping us updated.

Looks like it's a happy day today I'm glad everything's working out for you guys! Congratulations!

I am sorry for your loss but your post gives me and my husband great hope! My husband who is 42 and I am 35 have been taking fertility treatments for the past year with no success. Three months after our last attempt we got pregnant on our own! We were so excited! We told everyone we know because most of them have been so involved in our year long process we had to let them know. Well yesterday I had another ultrasound to see the baby's heart and the dr could not see anything. She says I should be about 7 weeks and the baby is measuring at 5 weeks. She said she is afraid the baby passed away. My heart broke right then and there! We are having another ultrasound this Friday to see if we can see a heartbeat but I don't have a good feeling about it. I have had no symptoms of miscarriage, I still have nausea, fatigue and all the other pregnancy symptoms. We are trying to keep good spirits but it's REALLY REALLY HARD! I spent all night crying and my husband is just heartbroken. We fear that we could not have a normal/healthy pregnancy because of our age also. So it is really reassuring to hear that it CAN still be a possibility! I pray for a healthy pregnancy for you both!!!!!!!