Ok. I just thought this was the right place for this. Ok, hear me out.

Now I was just thinking how odd it is that there are kids in middle school and high school that can turn pregnant. they do not mean to become pregnant intentionally. usually this doesn't turn out well after the birth since it's unplanned.

And then there's people, adults, over 18 and all that want a baby, prepare themselves for a baby and yet they just can't seem to have a baby. Those are wanted pregnancies.

I just thought it's so weird that people who don't want to have a baby get a baby and people who want a baby don't get it. Not only that, but; the fact that people under 18 can find it easier to get pregnant than people over 18 and that's not right.

I mean, I thought school is stressful and all. Girls are the ones who get pregnant and at school most girls have friends and they don't always get along. They would never know when and if their friend is talking bad behind their backs or if their friend is flirting with their so-called boyfriend. I know school was stressful for me and I felt like I was the only one so stressed like that. And homework? well, can't that be stressful? pop-quizes and tests? how do they do it-pregnant at school? a school i went to allowed pregnant students to walk around. this makes it so every other girl wants to be pregnant too. on my own i wanted to get pregnant a bit before. seeing other girls around school pregnant made me feel bad. I don't think that they should allow their students to have sex in the first place. I'm not sure what they should do, but it's unfair that someone that could vote can't be pregnant and someone not old enough to vote can. I'm still not pregnant after all that time wanting to be pregnant. I do get some stress at least. But I sometimes get that feeling how unfair it is for me knowing girls younger than me are getting pregnant easier. I mean, how does that even happen? Why don't wanting pregnancy make you pregnant and not wanting pregnancy make it so you don't get pregnant? I just think it should.

It does seem really unfair, but womens bodies are actually in peak condition to conceive starting at age 15.

I would stop blaming teens for this situation and start blaming the adults around them. You'd be hard pressed to find a culture outside of the west that keeps it's children separated from adults and even from each other (5 year olds are in 1st grade, 6 year olds are in second...etc). How are children supposed to learn to be adults when they aren't allowed to observe them?? Then we expect them to instantly be ready for adulthood at 18. So I would argue that people over 18 are just as "adult" as 16 and 17 year olds.

but, I think the answer to your question is that if you can't have something you want, you will notice all of the people who DO have it and begin to feel like everyone has what you want except for you. There are plenty of 35 year old women who get pregnant the moment they start trying.....but they aren't usually put in the spotlight because being pregnant at 35 is socially acceptable, being pregnant at 16 isn't.

It takes the average couple 1 year to conceive when they are trying, so don't get discouraged....besides, there are so many of those "unplanned" children out there that need homes.

O.k. For one thing its the 'law of attraction' if you want something desperately, you actually push it away. Wanting something desperately creates a lack of it.
For 2 I am absolutely being a caring person when I say aishaalia, please wait to bring a child into the world.
Please seek a healer, or guide of some sort to talk to first.
You are so desperate to have a baby and you are so young, yes your 18, but Aishaalia you will miss out on alot of things and when that 41 year old man decides that he's gonna split, whats going to happen to that baby?
Do you just need something to love?
Go get a pet first and see how that goes.
If you think that you having a baby is going to solve anything in your life you are just going to make anything in your life that needs to be solved harder. It won't lock your boyfriend in.
I have read several of your posts and that is why I am writing to you. I just think you need to talk to someone first before you try to get pregnant.
Babies are joys, but they are huge HUGE responsibilites and THEY COME FIRST never you again.
Just think about this.

Oh I just noticed that aishaalia is banned.
Well if she can still read this forum I hope she gets my message.