WOW.

I don't even know where to begin. First of all, the father's girlfriend found out about us because he told someone he had fooled around and got me pregnant.

Then, on Monday night, I started bleeding. I'm still bleeding, called my doctor and told him what happened, and I'm having a miscarriage. I was about six weeks.

This has just been so stressful and hard, and you get attached to the baby, even if it is unplanned, and I have the father saying he doesn't truly believe I was pregnant because he only got a cheap positive test, not an official doctor's note confirming the pregnancy. So not only am I extremely upset about this, I have him and my "friend" telling me now they don't believe I was really pregnant.

I am so sorry to hear that. I know it hurts but I believe that everything happens for a reason. Try to stay strong. We are all here for you and I think it's safe to say that pregnant or not, you are still welcome here.

Just for some additional direction, I wouldn't fool around with him ever again...and if you choose to fool around with someone else, please use protection. And you keep referring to this "friend" of yours. That is NOT a friend, honey.

Move on, and be done with them. With friends like that, who needs enemies?

I agree w/ Kell, no one needs people like that in thier life.

Well you can tell your "friend" the doctors don't write a note telling you your pregnant - when you call, they tell you to pee on a stick (which is exactly what you did).

I agree with Kell, leave them behind, they are destrictive and you need actual friends, ones that will be by your side and supportive no matter what. Ones that you know you can call at 3 in the morning, even though they may not be much help, they will still be there for you, no matter what. They won't judge or belittle you. They will help you. Ones you can cry to and they will hold you or be there for you and either cry with you or tell you "chin up" (or something like that) and get you back on the right path.